The creations of Kessily Lewel (and Sadie Marks)
This post is mostly going to focus on women with male partners. It might apply to other relationship dynamics, but one question I see asked a lot, mostly by women with male partners, is: “How do I get my husband/boyfriend to be rougher with me? He’s always afraid he’ll hurt me.”
Read more: “Don’t Hit Girls!” (Getting Your Partner to be Rougher) Continue reading ““Don’t Hit Girls!” (Getting Your Partner to be Rougher)”While I’ve had several in-depth BDSM lifestyle articles up recently, I have been slacking at the book updates over here. Oops! My schedule is backed up in general, unfortunately, which is why Maya’s Scary Little Halloween wasn’t released until October 31st. A bit late for a Halloween story, I know.
Sigh.
But, for those of you who love sweet and sexy DDlg stories and keep a Halloween spirit year-round… you’ll enjoy the story anyway. It’s a quick read with sexy spanking, punishment, and sexy times.
We recently talked about Impact Play here. I had actually intended to post this article first, but I realized it made more sense to wait until after I posted the one on Impact Play, since one of the things a lot of people love about that kind of BDSM are the marks it leaves behind.
This article will be a bit longer, because I want to discuss why so many people love to wear the marks of their play, but also talk about ways to avoid marks that last longer, like bruising.
Why do so many submissives love to wear marks?
If you are a sub or bottom of whatever type, who enjoys spanking, then chances are you know what I’m talking about right now. There is nothing quite like looking at the aftermath of a good spanking or paddling, and seeing all the red marks and maybe even some bruises that are left behind.
Continue reading “Bruising And Marks”
Musings of a Chaotic Mind 