Putting all your trust in a partner too soon is a mistake that I think most of us have made at one time or another. I think going too deep too fast is even more common in D/s relationships, for reasons we’ll get into in a minute.
I saw a kink meme the other day that said (paraphrased), “You should never play with someone the first time you meet. Wait until you’ve known them for a while, met them in person, and trust them completely.” And I think… that’s great advice. But I also think it’s unrealistic for a lot of people.
You’ve probably noticed that the blog has been slow lately. My books have been slower as well, for a lot of reasons, but I have news today!
I’ve finally got my writing schedule set up for the rest of the year, and a new DD anthology is part of it. I’ve been waiting for the official announcement, but now I can finally share.
So…. please enjoy this super hot cover. And if you love a cowboy Daddy, you might want to pre-order this.
These cowboys are looking for their cowgirls with feet in the stirrups, heads in the clouds and hearts set on love.
With six brand-spankin-new stories to spice up the loneliest nights, this anthology is chock-full full of rough and tumble dirty-talking Daddies and the sassy Little ones they are going to lay their claim on.
Saddle up and sit tight, because we’re going all in to conquer the wild west of your heart.
Is it too early in the year for a controversial topic? I did hold off until February, but this one has been nagging me.
If you’ve been around a while, you may have noticed I don’t approach things the way a lot of BDSM/Lifestyle blogs do. They focus on ideal situations, on best case scenarios, and they often give the impression that everyone should automatically be taking what they think is the safest path.
I used to read plenty of them, and I would get so frustrated because I couldn’t relate to any of it. It wasn’t what I saw at parties and clubs. It wasn’t what I lived and what other kinky friends were living.
While I’ve been on hiatus here for the past month, deep in Krampus writing/editing, I’ve been adding to my list of article ideas. I’m constantly on the lookout for quick and easy ideas, because as you’ve noticed… most of my articles are pretty long by blog standards.
I like to get very in-depth on subjects. (My books reflect that too. I’m big on backstory, plot, and detail.) I also like to give examples, so that people who are new to all of this can understand a little easier.
So, it’s hard for me to come up with quick blog ideas to fill in between the longer ones. And often what I think will be a short topic… isn’t. Oops.
Musings of a Chaotic Mind 