November 2018 – Musings of a Chaotic Mind

November 30, 2018November 30, 2018

The difference between controlling behavior and domination

People shy away from talking about abuse in the BDSM scene for good reason—it wasn’t too long ago that the mainstream world thought all Dominants were abusive, and all submissives were victims, and that both sides were crazy to boot. I promised myself when I really got into the blogging that I wasn’t going to avoid the unpleasant topics, and I wasn’t going to censor myself to please everyone so we’re going to talk about abuse, how to know if it’s happening, and how to deal with vanilla people who can’t tell the difference. Continue reading “The difference between controlling behavior and domination”

November 15, 2018

News and a snippet from the current WIP (Work in progress)

So my first news is that I decided to put together a new logo to use when posting about writer issues, writer problems, etc. I thought it would be more fun to have a little cartoon to go along with it, and people seem to like them–yay! So after making the logo I decided to use it as a background for the text so I could post things as memes, and I’m liking how it looks.

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November 11, 2018July 17, 2023

Dealing with subdrop

This isn’t a fun post, but I think it’s a useful one. More importantly, it’s one that I needed to write for myself, and I hope other people will find it a helpful read too. It’s timely since I’ve just come back from a wonderful week with my Dominants in Canada. I thought I’d get my thoughts in order before I started to head downwards emotionally, but I didn’t quite make it. So, there is a gap between when I started this and when I finished, but hopefully everything is still fresh enough on my mind.

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November 1, 2018

Storytime: A Walk in the Graveyard

Hellloooo and happy Halloween everyone! I wanted to do a quick short story and post this yesterday, but I finished it a bit later than planned and wanted to give it a quick look over today before I sent it out. (100% guaranteed I’ve missed typos, but I do like to make an attempt.)

So yes, it’s story time today with a creepy All Hallows Eve story for my readers. There’s a bit of non-con discipline here but I’m not a fan of giving away too much in warnings so I’ll leave it with that.
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