Musings of a Chaotic Mind

October 1, 2023January 2, 2024

Heaven Leigh’s Little Halloween Is Live!

I’m so excited to announce my latest book is out! This book is part of the popular Rawhide Ranch franchise. I can’t tell you how proud I was to be invited to participate in this world.

If you’re not familiar, it’s a huge series about a BDSM resort ranch. All dynamics are shown, but there is a special focus on Daddies/Mommies and Littles.

There can be a lot of stress and anxiety involved when you jump into a popular franchise like this. What if you don’t make the grade? As an author you never want to disappoint readers, and I have to admit I was nervous.

September 20, 2023September 20, 2023

Free Book Event!

Everyone loves free books, right?

So, I’m taking part of the quarterly Stuff Your Kindle Event. My book, like many others, is up for free for the next few days! This is the first book in the Daddy Takes the Reins series, and it has NEVER been free before!

You can go directly to Amazon and find it here: https://mybook.to/ClaimingHisBratBookOne

OR

You can go to the Romance Bookworms website and look through all the rest of the books. There are sooooo many free books there! You can search by author, keyword, or genre. Plenty of kink and BDSM books in the mix too!
https://www.romancebookworms.com/kindle

This is a three-day event. It ends on the 22nd, but my book will be free part of the 23rd too, so don’t miss out!

September 15, 2023September 15, 2023

Let’s Talk About Service Subs

People are often confused about the various types of submissives in the scene. Some aren’t aware that there is more than one way to be a sub. Others know there are multiple ways, but aren’t really sure what the difference is. And some… well, they like to gatekeep and say that submission only counts if you do it in the way they expect.

But the truth is… there are many different roles that fall under the header of submissive.

Finding Time To Be Little

I saw a comment from someone in a group recently about really needing some Little time, but just not having the time or space for it. As I was replying to them, I realized it was probably an issue many people have. So here we are with a whole article about it.

How do you balance that need for some completely relaxed, stress-free, inner child time… with the overwhelming demands of adult life?

And…

When do you stop and take a moment to enjoy that Little headspace, when it seems like you have a never ending list of responsibilities to take care of?

In my experience, if you find yourself really needing Little time and you don’t take it, keep pushing your Little side down because it’s not convenient, eventually your Little will break out—and probably at the worst possible time.

July 28, 2023July 20, 2023

The Blind Men and the Elephant (AKA There is No One True Way)

Black and grey background with the words: Learning Safely.

There is an old parable called ‘The Blind Men and the Elephant’. The oldest version of it came from a Buddhist text from 500BCE. It’s a story about a group of blind men who have never come across an elephant before, and who learn what the elephant is like by touching it.

Each blind man feels a different part of the elephant, but only one part, such as the side or the tail. They then describe the elephant based on their limited experience and their descriptions of the elephant are all very different because they only explored a small piece of it.