No matter what holiday you celebrate, I hope it’s a great one for you. There are about a dozen holidays this month and I don’t want to leave anyone out, since Yule is officially today I’m going to post my online holiday card now. I’m fairly proud of it so I hope you enjoy it!
In other news: I’m currently working on a holiday story, that I plan to post on Christmas Eve or Day, depending on how quickly I’m able to get some work done on it.
I did come up with an amazing idea for a dark holiday novel or novella, but there was no way to get it ready for this year. I was tempted to post a little teaser for you guys instead of writing something new, but since it likely won’t be finished until late next year that seemed cruel. I am aiming to put that novel out next November/December if all goes well though. It has a Krampus theme so it could end up being very dark indeed; I guess we’ll see!
So, this is an unusual one, and I’m not sure if there’s a lot of interest in this kind of post, so if you like it please let me know! I normally write about my books, interesting kink/sex topics, or about being a submissive but today I thought I’d talk about actual writing, specifically sex scenes, just for fun.
Warning there is going to be all kinds of graphic in this post. Continue reading “Writing a hot sex scene”
People shy away from talking about abuse in the BDSM scene for good reason—it wasn’t too long ago that the mainstream world thought all Dominants were abusive, and all submissives were victims, and that both sides were crazy to boot. I promised myself when I really got into the blogging that I wasn’t going to avoid the unpleasant topics, and I wasn’t going to censor myself to please everyone so we’re going to talk about abuse, how to know if it’s happening, and how to deal with vanilla people who can’t tell the difference. Continue reading “The difference between controlling behavior and domination”
So my first news is that I decided to put together a new logo to use when posting about writer issues, writer problems, etc. I thought it would be more fun to have a little cartoon to go along with it, and people seem to like them–yay! So after making the logo I decided to use it as a background for the text so I could post things as memes, and I’m liking how it looks.
Continue reading “News and a snippet from the current WIP (Work in progress)”
This isn’t a fun post, but I think it’s a useful one. More importantly, it’s one that I needed to write for myself, and I hope other people will find it a helpful read too. It’s timely since I’ve just come back from a wonderful week with my Dominants in Canada. I thought I’d get my thoughts in order before I started to head downwards emotionally, but I didn’t quite make it. So, there is a gap between when I started this and when I finished, but hopefully everything is still fresh enough on my mind.
Continue reading “Dealing with subdrop”