Musings of a Chaotic Mind

August 9, 2024August 9, 2024

ACTION DADDY FIVE PRE-ORDER

Just a quick author announcement. My next book Bride of the Daddy (Action Daddy Book Five) is up for pre-order now and will be releasing on August 19th.

While my blog here is a labor of love, my books are how I pay the bills. So, if you enjoy kinky romance with lots of detail, plot, character development, and graphic scenes of kink and sex, then you might enjoy my books.

The Action Daddy series is a DDlg romance with authentic emotions and realistic relationship development.

Graphic contains pictures of all five Action Daddy books. These covers are meant to look like movie posters. Each one shows a sexy older man in the front and in back there is a shadowed action scene from his movie on one side and a picture of romance on the other side.

Bride of the Daddy (Action Daddy Book Five)

Universal series link here: https://mybook.to/ActionDaddySeries

Saving the world. Gunfights at high noon. Battling alien monsters.
It’s all in a day’s work for Daddy Dom Mitch James.

As an A-list action star, he’s been chasing the Hollywood dream for more than half his life. He has two Oscars on his shelf and more movie roles than he can count tucked under his belt.

None of it matters without his babygirl and fiancé, Olivia, and now he’s going to make it official.

It has all led to this.

With patience, understanding, and a little necessary discipline, it seems like Olivia’s worries have finally been laid to rest. Plans for the Hollywood wedding of the season are well under way… until a last-minute disaster throws the entire production into danger.

Now, with Olivia on the verge of panicking, he’s starting to worry he might have a runaway bride situation on his hands, if they don’t figure things out quickly.

Join Mitch and Olivia for the thrilling conclusion of the Action Daddy Franchise and find out if it will end in happily ever after… or heartbreak.

July 26, 2024July 20, 2024

THE DIFFICULT JOURNEY TO LEARNING HOW TO SAY NO 2/2- LETTING YOUR SUBMISSIVE SIDE HELP

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Last week we talked about basic skills that can help you learn to say no to people in your life. These are the basic tools that you can use anywhere, in any situation, and are just, in general, really good things to practice.

Today we’re going to focus more specifically on the BDSM side of things, but keep in mind that the skills in Part One can still be helpful in kink situations because they are easily adaptable. This part is just more BDSM centered and is going to be more nuanced.

I’ve always said that BDSM can help your life if you are engaged in healthy dynamics, and this is another aspect of that. It might sound counterintuitive, but your submissive inclinations can be used to keep you from spreading yourself too thin.

Part Two— Letting your submissive side help.

We’re going to talk about some different mindsets that might help you focus on your decisions, so you’re not obeying on autopilot. The goal is for you to make the choice to submit, and I’m going to be honest, submission feels more satisfying when you choose to do it.

THE DIFFICULT JOURNEY TO LEARNING HOW TO SAY NO 1/2

(Note: I had intended for this to be one piece, but it’s a difficult issue and it’s gone much longer than I had planned. So I’m breaking it in half and Part One and Part Two will be posted in consecutive weeks.)

Saying no is an important part of setting personal boundaries, and as we all know, boundaries and limits are essential for a healthy life, and not just in the Scene. It’s a skill that you will need in all aspects of your life.

But many of us with submissive personalities have trouble with this. It runs contrary to our basic nature. While it’s natural for most people to decline things they don’t want to do… for submissives it’s a whole different level of difficulty.

Krampus Summer Sale- Last Day!

Well, I had a post set up to announce my Krampus sale… and it never went live. I just now realized.

If you’re signed up for my newsletter, you probably already know about the sale. That’s the best place to find out about new releases and sales honestly, because I don’t always remember to do my author news over here. If you’re not signed up, you can go here to get subscribed:
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But anyway, you have one day left to grab Lord Krampus on sale for .99cents.

This is probably my favorite Krampus book and I’ve never put it on sale before.

Book Five of the Krampus Collective On sale!

Also in #KU (This is a kindle countdown deal so it’s not available in all countries)

Each book stands alone. Every story and dynamic is unique.

Series link: https://mybook.to/KrampusCollective

Lord Krampus

He’s never been anyone’s hero… until now.

The moment he sees her, he knows Beatrice is the one.

Her innocence should repel him. Instead, it draws him in. But just because he rescued her, doesn’t mean he’s allowed to keep her. She’s just not bad enough, not naughty enough to feed his hungers.

After a stolen week of dark pleasures, he’s forced to return her, leaving Tris with a choice: spend the year moving on with her mortal life or becoming the naughty girl her Krampus needs. This book does contain some punishment, as per the Krampus theme, but less than the other books in this series. It does have a very strong and sweet love story with lots of sexy kink.

June 21, 2024June 21, 2024

THE DANGER OF HAVING A SUBMISSIVE PERSONALITY

There are those who choose to submit in a D/s dynamic or scene because they enjoy it, but are not otherwise submissive. These people who submit for pleasure, tend to have a pretty healthy understanding of when submission is appropriate.

Bedroom submissives, among others, fall into this category. They probably won’t be wearing a collar in public, outside of a Scene venue. They probably won’t be letting their kink partners make long lists of rules for them either.

Some of the subbiest people in the scene I’ve ever met have very powerful, dominant roles in the outside world. They are fine with being in charge, submission during their off hours is just a relief.

They might be judges or doctors, or managers who boss around a whole building full of people, and they have absolutely no problem doing that… and then setting it aside when it’s time to play. Submission may feel natural to them, in a specific place, with a certain person, but they don’t go through life constantly bending to suit other people.

They are good at setting boundaries because they limit their submission to kink, and don’t allow it to impact the rest of their life. In other words, these are people who only submit when and where they choose.

But today we’re going to talk about another kind of submissive. Those who are submissive by nature, by personality. It’s not necessarily a kink thing, though they can also choose to submit as part of the scene.