Making Rules With Your Submissive

A Submissive's Rules

I’ve been writing a lot about rules lately, so this article felt like it was long overdue. What I’d like you to do is read the title and put an emphasis on with. Making rules /with/ your submissive. What I see too often, both in fiction and in real life, is that the Dom simply hands down a list of rules that they think are in the best interests of the submissive, without actually discussing it with them.

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How to make a nearly silent kinky toy for a couple bucks! DYI-Kink!

Some of you may know what a Loopy Johnny is because it’s rather famous in the kink community. It’s a brilliant implement, both severe and almost silent which means those of you who have to be wary of making too much noise will love this. It also leaves some really beautiful loop shaped marks. I totally advocate picking up the real thing if you’ve got the bucks. They are beautiful, durable, very easy to stick in your pocket to carry anywhere and I’ve had mine for years without any problems. Continue reading “How to make a nearly silent kinky toy for a couple bucks! DYI-Kink!”

Long Distance D/s and the Dirty Daddies Anthology

So, if you’ve been following my blog for a while you know that I don’t do many book review posts. In general, this blog is more about D/s relationships than it is about promoting other books in the genre. And I think there are enough blogs out there that cover book reviews without me feeling the need to jump on the bandwagon often, but this is something I think some of my readers might be interested in, especially if you were following my long-distance relationship series. Continue reading “Long Distance D/s and the Dirty Daddies Anthology”

Blog Post: Long Distance D/s Part 3— Rewards and Long Distance Scenes

This post is the third of a series. If you haven’t already read the others you should start here:

Now that we’ve gotten all the mean punishment stuff out of the way it’s time to discuss the fun stuff you can do from a distance. I’m wrapping up rewards and scenes in the same post because neither of them is as long as the previous one—but it should go without saying that not all scenes are rewards since we already covered the ones that weren’t, right? Continue reading “Blog Post: Long Distance D/s Part 3— Rewards and Long Distance Scenes”