The creations of Kessily Lewel (and Sadie Marks)
Not all Daddies are the same.
I can never say this enough, but DDLG is not the only Daddy-style dynamic out there. It’s become very popular, so we see a lot of Daddy Doms, especially in kinky fiction, but it’s important to remember that not all Daddies are DDLG.
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It’s been a while since I had a new book out. I’ve been doing a lot of anthologies lately, which has taken up most of my writing time, so my last solo book release was actually in August when I finished the Action Daddy series.
Eeek.
This book is part of Rawhide Ranch, a multi-author franchise about a BDSM ranch where people can live out their fantasies.
As you might guess from the name, it is about a DDlg relationship. I really felt like I got to know Angel and Heaven in this book. Everything just… fit, and it came out exactly how I wanted it to.
This is the second book about this couple, and I really feel like you get to see the way they’ve transitioned from a nervous new relationship to being stable partners with a future.
Harmonizing with Little Heaven Leigh
Sometimes getting everything you want, means leaving some things behind…
Heaven Leigh loves her life at Rawhide Ranch.
She loves her job, her friends, and most importantly, her sweet, patient Daddy, Angel.
She also really loves baking fun cakes and things for the pranks her friends like to play… even if she isn’t super excited about the sore bottom those pranks get her.
But building a life at Rawhide means giving up the last ties she has to the only mother she’s ever known— the company she helped build from a struggling bakery into an empire.
And if she wants to keep moving forward, if she wants the happily ever after Angel has promised her, she’s going to have to accept that embracing her future means letting go of some of her past… Warning: Kink, BDSM, DDlg
Harmonizing is a sequel to Heaven Leigh’s Little Halloween which is FREE today!
For a Little, the ability to slip into a younger mindset, and bring their inner child out into the world to play can be a gift. It is a way to escape stress, relax, and just have fun. For people who have to be in control too much, it’s a way of forcing themselves to let go.
If you normally struggle to let other people take care of you, being in Little space can suddenly make it easier for you to accept help. Most Littles, by their nature, enjoy being indulged and cared for, at least to a certain extent. That’s really what the Little experience is about. Letting go of control, and allowing someone else to look after you for a while.
I see this question pop up a lot since Daddies/Mommies/DDlg relationships/ Littles have become slightly more mainstream. These roles have long been misunderstood.
People are starting to be more accepting of such dynamics now, but as that happens, we see many who are confused about what the terms mean, or what that kind of relationship would look like. And there are a lot of people who love the idea of a Daddy Dom… but don’t love the idea of ageplay or acting younger. It makes them feel uncomfortable.
We’re going to clear up a few misconceptions about these relationships, but first we’ll start with some basic definitions to make sure we’re all on the same page.
Please remember that most roles in the BDSM world mean exactly what the identifying people want them to mean, so it can be hard to pin down specific definitions. My definitions, or the commonly accepted definitions, may not fit you or your dynamic exactly.
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I want to start off by reminding you of something. A punishment (or any activity really) may be a limit for you. It might upset you to even think about someone receiving this punishment, because it triggers you. But that doesn’t mean the punishment itself is abusive or wrong.
Every relationship is different because people are different and what they can tolerate varies. So, punishments cannot be the same across the board. I know people who love to be spanked, but will not accept it as punishment.
I mean spanking is pretty much the most standard basic punishment you can think of in a D/s relationship… but for some people it’s a limit. Why? Well, in one case I know it’s because she loves spanking and doesn’t ever want it to be tainted with any negative feelings. It’s arousing and she wants it to stay that way.
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Musings of a Chaotic Mind 