Spanking – Musings of a Chaotic Mind

December 26, 2025December 25, 2025

New Krampus is live!

I know things have been quiet here lately. I have been soooo swamped. December is my busiest month and this year everything just went slower than usual.

Which is why my holiday book just came out yesterday, on Christmas, instead of at the end of November as planned. But for those of you who have been waiting for the next Krampus… I think you’re going to love it.

It’s the longest one yet, which is part of the delay, but this couple is just so good. I honestly didn’t want to stop writing them.

Anyway, I hope to be back to blogging in January, but for now, please check out Krampus Tamer.

The Krampus Collective Book 7

Now live and in #KU (paperback coming soon)

https://mybook.to/KrampusCollective

👋🍑💥Tamer/Brat dynamic

🎄Single mom

⛓️Discipline/Punishment (of course!)

👹 Monster Lover Romance

In the old days people called him Krampen. Claw. Demon.

He was a monster out of nightmares, and while most of the Collective has moved on from that early form, he’s always felt most comfortable in their primal shape. The claws, and wickedly agile tail and tongue are just too useful to give up.

Especially now that he’s ready to choose a human mate. And even more so when that mate turns out to be a brat in desperate need of taming. The kind of taming only Krampus, the embodiment of punishment, can deliver.

But his new mate isn’t just any brat. Brianna is a single mother, fierce and bold and determined to do whatever it takes to keep her daughter safe. Now Krampus will have to break every rule his kind has, if he wants to keep his mate and her child.

And it’s a toss-up as to whether he’ll be the one doing the taming…. Or the one to be tamed.

August 23, 2024August 20, 2024

KINKY MEMORIES: THE REN FAIRE

For those of you who are kinky and have gone to Ren Faires, you know that they are excellent places to let your kinky side show a tiny bit. Obviously, we’re not talking full-fledged exposure or anything, but when it comes to your clothing choices… well, leather is encouraged.

Collars, cuffs, and even the occasional flogger hanging from your belt are not out of place there. And as if to encourage the kinky crowd, you’ll find that many Ren Faires have stocks set up, not just for display, but to be used. Most people get in them for fun photos. “Oh, Look. I’m in the stocks for being bad! Hahaha”

The Naked Autograph Story

I don’t have anything serious ready for this week, so I thought I’d just tell you a funny story. Someone brought this up the other day and said I should put it on the blog. Since I don’t believe I’ve ever told the story here, I figured I might as well.

I tend to only talk about my own experiences as a way to give examples of situations, since this blog isn’t really about my personal life. It’s more about helping people learn about the D/s lifestyle and BDSM– and occasionally reminding people that I make my living from my books.

But I do have some fun stories from my time in the kink world and this is one that always makes me laugh when I think about it.

Sharon Green and Her Kinky Sci-fi and Fantasy Novels

My favorite book Gateway to Xanadu by Sharon Green

Sharon Green was a popular author in the 80’s and 90’s. Her Sci-fi and Fantasy books were published by well-known companies like Daw and Avon, and some of her romance came out through Harlequin.

I started out as a teenage fan but eventually we met online and became friendly. We had many conversations about the oddest topics over the years, but the last email I wrote to her bounced. I tried her back-up email and that bounced too. I figured we’d reconnect eventually, but a few months later I found out that she’d died.

I felt her loss harder than I would have expected, in a year (2022) filled with other losses and I still don’t really know what to say about her death. So let’s talk about her work instead.

November 24, 2023November 16, 2023

“Don’t Hit Girls!” (Getting Your Partner to be Rougher)

This post is mostly going to focus on women with male partners. It might apply to other relationship dynamics, but one question I see asked a lot, mostly by women with male partners, is: “How do I get my husband/boyfriend to be rougher with me? He’s always afraid he’ll hurt me.”