Kessily Lewel

September 10, 2021September 10, 2021

Manage Your Expectations

This article has been on my mind for a while now, but I’ve had trouble getting the words right. Usually if I wait long enough things will more-or-less form up in my head and then I can spill them out in one long whoosh.

That didn’t seem to be happening with this one and then I realized it was because I was working with the wrong title.

I started out with: Subs Are Not Children. And that’s true. Even if the sub identifies as a Little or a Brat, they aren’t children. The distinction between a childish headspace and a child is hugely important for many reasons.

But that’s not really what I want to discuss right now, so I gave it a title that more accurately reflects what I was trying to say: Manage your expectations. That is nice and compact, but it’s also a bit vague.

August 27, 2021August 4, 2021

Figging and Using Ginger in Your Play

I could have sworn I’d done an article on figging already, but I looked, and I couldn’t find it. I think I might possibly have done an abbreviated version in a larger post, rather than doing one on its own. So, I guess it’s time.

Figging is the act of inserting a piece of ginger into an orifice. Most commonly we hear about it being used in anal play. However, you can actually do it in the vagina and in the urethra as well.

August 14, 2021August 14, 2021

Surprise Sale! (And Other News)

You get a bonus post this week because I’m having a surprise sale. Since Amazon messed up my last one back in March I decided to have a sale now to celebrate the new release in the Daddy Take the Reins series. So Claiming His Brat is NOW on sale for .99 cents this week only! The sale ends on August 21st so don’t miss out.

I’m not planning to put it on sale again in 2021. So, if you read it in Kindle Unlimited but want a copy of your own, or you’ve been curious about the series, now is your chance to grab it for pennies.

In other news I’ll be doing a release event for my new release Keeping His Brat tomorrow (August 15th) in the Dirty Daddy Party Room on Fb. I have some fun giveaways planned, including a Fortune Cookie Soap gift pack with a custom designed item I had made for this series. So come find me at 7pm eastern time and join the fun! (My posts will be live between 7-8pm but my contests will all last 48 hours.)

That’s all for now, but I’ll see you at the end of the month to talk about adding a little spice to the bedroom… with an actual spice (Ginger!)

August 13, 2021August 4, 2021

What Do I Do If My Needs Aren’t Being Met?

My last serious blog post discussed relationship maintenance, especially where it applies to D/s partners. The importance of occasionally going through your rules and protocols to discuss what’s working and what isn’t, cannot be underestimated.

August 7, 2021August 7, 2021

Keeping His Brat is now live!

Just a quick announcement. The third book in the Daddy Takes the Reins series is now live and in Kindle Unlimited. Please help me make it a success!

If you can, add it to your ‘want to reads’ on Goodreads. That stirs up excitement about the book and gets more people interesting. The link is here: Keeping His Brat on Goodreads

And if you haven’t bought or borrowed your copy of the book yet you can grab it here: Keeping His Brat.

For those of you who picked up arc copies to review, you can now put your reviews up. Aren’t release days exciting? Wheeee!

Don’t forget to pop back in on Friday though so a series blog post about dealing with your needs not being met. See you then!