There is a stereotype out there, that says women don’t ask for what they want. They dance around, and hint, and never actually just spit out a request. It leaves the men fumbling around trying to figure things out, and failing because they’ve been given no information to work with.
Yeah… It’s not true.
Sure, there are people who do this, but it doesn’t really have anything to do with gender. If I was going to make this about gender, I might say I notice it more with men, because they were always told they weren’t supposed to have needs. Needs aren’t manly. So expressing any is just really hard.
Or worse…some were taught that men don’t ask, they take.
It’s been a while since I had a new book out. I’ve been doing a lot of anthologies lately, which has taken up most of my writing time, so my last solo book release was actually in August when I finished the Action Daddy series.
Eeek.
This book is part of Rawhide Ranch, a multi-author franchise about a BDSM ranch where people can live out their fantasies.
As you might guess from the name, it is about a DDlg relationship. I really felt like I got to know Angel and Heaven in this book. Everything just… fit, and it came out exactly how I wanted it to.
This is the second book about this couple, and I really feel like you get to see the way they’ve transitioned from a nervous new relationship to being stable partners with a future.
Harmonizing with Little Heaven Leigh
Sometimes getting everything you want, means leaving some things behind…
Heaven Leigh loves her life at Rawhide Ranch.
She loves her job, her friends, and most importantly, her sweet, patient Daddy, Angel.
She also really loves baking fun cakes and things for the pranks her friends like to play… even if she isn’t super excited about the sore bottom those pranks get her.
But building a life at Rawhide means giving up the last ties she has to the only mother she’s ever known— the company she helped build from a struggling bakery into an empire.
And if she wants to keep moving forward, if she wants the happily ever after Angel has promised her, she’s going to have to accept that embracing her future means letting go of some of her past… Warning: Kink, BDSM, DDlg
Harmonizing is a sequel to Heaven Leigh’s Little Halloween which is FREE today!
A couple months back, I mentioned the concept of Spotters, and at that time I made a note to write an article about it, so I added it to the idea pile. Last month I had an e-mail asking for more information, so I moved it up to the top of the list.
This is your reminder that if you have ideas for things you’d like me to write about, or if I mention something you would like more information on, you can always use the contact button to e-mail me. It helps to know what readers are interested in, and I often plan based on that.
For a Little, the ability to slip into a younger mindset, and bring their inner child out into the world to play can be a gift. It is a way to escape stress, relax, and just have fun. For people who have to be in control too much, it’s a way of forcing themselves to let go.
If you normally struggle to let other people take care of you, being in Little space can suddenly make it easier for you to accept help. Most Littles, by their nature, enjoy being indulged and cared for, at least to a certain extent. That’s really what the Little experience is about. Letting go of control, and allowing someone else to look after you for a while.
This seems like a pretty basic question on the surface, but when you dive deep, you find it’s a lot more complex. And, as with many things in the Scene, the meaning depends on the people involved.
Simply put, a collar is usually defined as a band that you wear around your throat. It can be made from almost any material: lace, leather, metal, velvet. And by itself it doesn’t need to have any sort of meaning.
Musings of a Chaotic Mind 