The creations of Kessily Lewel (and Sadie Marks)
Sci-fi and spanking have always gone well together in my mind. Why? It seems counterintuitive, I know. I mean spanking is so primal and many sci-fi worlds tend towards futuristic setups with sterile logic ruling the day. Using physical force to punish someone seems backwards when you are in a future where intelligence is in charge and emotions are carefully controlled. Continue reading “Blog Post: Scifi and spanking just go together, ok?”
This is going to be one of those informative posts where I ramble about things that people who are new to the scene, or people who are outside the scene but curious, might find useful–but I actually hope some people who have been around the block a couple times might find it interesting too.
I’m going to discuss SSC and RACK, two popular acronyms used by people in the scene. Continue reading “We’ve outgrown Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC)”
Not all submissives are the same.
Right off the starting block I need to clarify something: not everyone who ‘submits’ considers themselves a submissive. In fact, some don’t like the word at all because of the connotations and expectations that come with it. Continue reading “Blog Post: What kind of submissive are you?”
So today I have an anniversary. It was two years ago today that I submitted my first book. It’s a milestone I’m proud of because I tend to avoid drastic change and I knew that switching from short stories and articles to novels was going to bring a lot of change. Continue reading “Two years ago today…”
I try really hard to be inclusive of everyone and every possible relationship setup when I write these blog posts. So, I don’t make a lot of definitive statements like, “If you do this you are wrong!” Every submissive is unique, every Dominant is unique, so of course each relationship is going to be different. But in my experience if you don’t get mad at your Dominant now and then there is usually a problem because with real submission there needs to be both challenge and growth and neither of those come without frustration. Continue reading “If your Doms don’t make you mad sometimes there might be a problem.”
Musings of a Chaotic Mind 