How Action Daddy Happened–and a Teaser!

I have a number of lifestyle articles percolating, and probably a dozen that are partly written, but I don’t yet know what the next finished one will be. Last month was exhausting, making the bestseller list is not an easy task. I got very little writing done so now I’m playing catch-up.

Dirty Daddies is in Kindle Unlimited now, and is still ranked in the top 400 books on Amazon, with #1’s in lots of categories still standing, which is absolutely freaking amazing to me. Seriously I’m so impressed with its success. But now that it’s out in the world it’s time for me to get back to my next book.

For those of you who didn’t read Lights, Camera, Daddy! the first book in the Action Daddy series, or catch the novella in Dirty Daddies– let me fill you in a little bit on the background.

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Manage Your Expectations

This article has been on my mind for a while now, but I’ve had trouble getting the words right. Usually if I wait long enough things will more-or-less form up in my head and then I can spill them out in one long whoosh.

That didn’t seem to be happening with this one and then I realized it was because I was working with the wrong title.

I started out with: Subs Are Not Children. And that’s true. Even if the sub identifies as a Little or a Brat, they aren’t children. The distinction between a childish headspace and a child is hugely important for many reasons.

But that’s not really what I want to discuss right now, so I gave it a title that more accurately reflects what I was trying to say: Manage your expectations. That is nice and compact, but it’s also a bit vague.

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Figging and Using Ginger in Your Play

I could have sworn I’d done an article on figging already, but I looked, and I couldn’t find it. I think I might possibly have done an abbreviated version in a larger post, rather than doing one on its own. So, I guess it’s time.

Figging is the act of inserting a piece of ginger into an orifice. Most commonly we hear about it being used in anal play. However, you can actually do it in the vagina and in the urethra as well.

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Punishing a Submissive Part Two: Sometimes it’s Not About Teaching A Lesson

In the first part we did a basic overview of why some subs/bottoms/littles want or need punishment, and basically what the point of it is. I think that covered the common things people tend to talk about. Probably nothing too earth-shattering in that, but we laid the groundwork to discuss some things that are a little deeper.

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