There have always been relationships that are built on financial considerations. One example, historically, would be the bride price. The prospective groom (or his family) would pay the bride’s family for his wife. This was considered the norm in many cultures, and is different from a dowry, which was a much more complicated transaction.
Release Day for Wrath of Daddy! (Action Daddy Book Four)

It’s finally live and in #KU Woohoo!
I had so much fun writing this one. There are things in here that I’ve been wanting to write since the first book, and it all fit perfectly.
If you haven’t read this series yet, you can find it here: Action Daddy on Amazon.
This is a DDlg romance with lots of steam (code word for sex) and kink. The story is about an A-list action star in Hollywood, Mitch James. He falls in love with Olivia, a crafty (A nickname for someone who works in Craft Services, in this case she’s similar to a caterer.) working on his set.
Read more: Release Day for Wrath of Daddy! (Action Daddy Book Four) Continue reading “Release Day for Wrath of Daddy! (Action Daddy Book Four)”Time Management and Organization Help for Scattered Subs and Littles
For a lot of us in D/s relationships where there are rules and discipline, time management and all the issues that go along with it seem to be a big thing. I know one of the issues I struggle with the most is being self-motivating. I’m just not.
That’s always been one of the things I most need from a Dom, because once I get going, I’m a powerhouse for work—but getting started… well, that’s another story. I am absolutely an example of the First law of Physics. Object at rest stays at rest; object in motion stays in motion.
Read more: Time Management and Organization Help for Scattered Subs and Littles Continue reading “Time Management and Organization Help for Scattered Subs and Littles”Aftercare Is a Choice
Okay, let me start right from the beginning by clarifying the title. Aftercare is a choice for the submissive. Doms should always check in with a sub after scenes in some way and be ready to provide any care needed. That’s just part of responsible Domming.
This might be physical care if some first aid or physical assistance is required. It might be emotional care if the scene was intense.
Continue reading “Aftercare Is a Choice”Aftercare in a Long-Distance Relationship
How do you do aftercare in a long-distance relationship?
This is a question that comes up now and then. More people than usual have found themselves in long-distance relationships over the past couple years. Maybe they never expected to be, but Covid forced the issue, so LD relationships have been a big topic.
I was asked about it again recently and I realized I hadn’t done a stand-alone blog post on the subject. I think there was some discussion on aftercare in the main Long-Distance D/s series I did, but it’s probably worth doing on its own.
So, how do you do aftercare when your partner is far away, and you can’t really touch them? Short answer: the same way you do everything else from a distance—with adaptations. The long answer is a little more complicated so let’s dive into it.

