Submissives hold all the power…or do they?

Submissives hold all the power…or do they?

In the world of consensual BDSM play, yes that does include the milder side streets of domestic discipline and spanking, there is a lot of talk about how the submissive or bottom has all the power in the relationship. I’m going to say something controversial here: I don’t believe this is true or should be true.

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Questions, questions!

I have a couple different blog posts in the works; interesting topics, or at least I think they are, I guess you’ll have to let me know when you read them.  I’m intending to get at least one out before I leave for a trip on Sunday, and maybe a sexy snippet from my new novel too.

In the meantime though, I thought it would be really fun to get some reader input. I’m fairly new to the blogging thing, and I’m not used to having access to my audience to ask questions. The short story world doesn’t really put you in touch with readers the way blogs do, so I might as well abuse it.

I don’t know how many people are into answering polls, so it could be that no one will reply, but I figured I’d give it a shot. So, I’m just going to put out a couple of polls to  get a better idea of what you guys want. I’m still planning to do a mix of topics but if one type is especially desired I can lean more in that direction.

This is my first poll on here but I believe I’ve left it open for ‘Other’ so if there are things you want that you haven’t seen yet, feel free to add those. And comments are always desired. I can’t promise to give people what they ask for but I am often inspired by questions people have.

This second poll is about the pairings so it’s mostly going to apply to the stories. I tend to write mostly MaleDom/female sub or FemaleDom/female sub because that’s where most of my personal fantasies and experience lie, but I do want to be inclusive so if there are people interested in other pairings I’d like to know.

Absolutely use other if you have specific requests not mentioned. Again, I focus on what I have experience in, but I welcome everyone.