Relationships – Page 11 – Musings of a Chaotic Mind

November 20, 2020September 12, 2021

Daddy Kink and Ageplay Are Not the Same

How these these things always end up so long… I have no idea. This was not a post that was easily divided into two parts either so it’s just long, but I hope you find it useful.

Since I recently wrote my first Daddy kink book, it’s come to my attention that a lot of people are confused about Daddy Kink and Ageplay. Both are incredibly popular right now in fiction and in the scene, but many seem to think they are the same thing. They aren’t.

November 6, 2020November 5, 2020

Ignore The One True Wayers – Your Kink Doesn’t Need To Follow Anyone Else’s Rules

I apologize in advance because this is a long one.

From the title I bet you can guess what we’re going to discuss today. People who decide that their way to kink is the only way to kink are bad for the community. It’s a form of gatekeeping and it takes away people’s right to decide for themselves.

September 11, 2020August 4, 2020

What Are the Signs of a Great Submissive?

What are the signs of a great submissive? There are none. There are things that you consider important in a submissive, just like there are things that submissives consider important in the Doms they look for. But there is no one true way to be a sub, which means there is no handy list of what makes a good submissive, only what makes a submissive good for you! Continue reading “What Are the Signs of a Great Submissive?”

August 21, 2020July 14, 2020

Don’t Let Your Relationship Get Stuck in a Rut.

Today’s piece is something everyone occasionally needs to be reminded about when it comes to relationships. It’s easy when you’ve been with someone for a while to let things slip into routine and that can cause trouble, particularly for D/s partnerships which tend to require a certain level of excitement to thrive. Continue reading “Don’t Let Your Relationship Get Stuck in a Rut.”

June 12, 2020June 3, 2020

Review of the Survive LDR store

We had a pretty intense 3-part series on relationship stuff last month, so I think it’s time for something a little lighter. If you recall I wrote to you in April about the Survive LDR site which focuses on long-distance relationships. Continue reading “Review of the Survive LDR store”