Let’s Talk About Service Subs

People are often confused about the various types of submissives in the scene. Some aren’t aware that there is more than one way to be a sub. Others know there are multiple ways, but aren’t really sure what the difference is. And some… well, they like to gatekeep and say that submission only counts if you do it in the way they expect.

But the truth is… there are many different roles that fall under the header of submissive.

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Finding Time To Be Little

I saw a comment from someone in a group recently about really needing some Little time, but just not having the time or space for it. As I was replying to them, I realized it was probably an issue many people have. So here we are with a whole article about it.

How do you balance that need for some completely relaxed, stress-free, inner child time… with the overwhelming demands of adult life?

And…

When do you stop and take a moment to enjoy that Little headspace, when it seems like you have a never ending list of responsibilities to take care of?

In my experience, if you find yourself really needing Little time and you don’t take it, keep pushing your Little side down because it’s not convenient, eventually your Little will break out—and probably at the worst possible time.

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The Blind Men and the Elephant (AKA There is No One True Way)

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There is an old parable called ‘The Blind Men and the Elephant’. The oldest version of it came from a Buddhist text from 500BCE. It’s a story about a group of blind men who have never come across an elephant before, and who learn what the elephant is like by touching it.

Each blind man feels a different part of the elephant, but only one part, such as the side or the tail. They then describe the elephant based on their limited experience and their descriptions of the elephant are all very different because they only explored a small piece of it.

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Release Day for Wrath of Daddy! (Action Daddy Book Four)

It’s finally live and in #KU Woohoo!

I had so much fun writing this one. There are things in here that I’ve been wanting to write since the first book, and it all fit perfectly.

If you haven’t read this series yet, you can find it here: Action Daddy on Amazon.

This is a DDlg romance with lots of steam (code word for sex) and kink. The story is about an A-list action star in Hollywood, Mitch James. He falls in love with Olivia, a crafty (A nickname for someone who works in Craft Services, in this case she’s similar to a caterer.) working on his set.

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