SPOTTERS—KEEPING YOU SAFE, WHEN YOU CAN’T

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A couple months back, I mentioned the concept of Spotters, and at that time I made a note to write an article about it, so I added it to the idea pile. Last month I had an e-mail asking for more information, so I moved it up to the top of the list.

This is your reminder that if you have ideas for things you’d like me to write about, or if I mention something you would like more information on, you can always use the contact button to e-mail me. It helps to know what readers are interested in, and I often plan based on that.

But let’s discuss Spotters.

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BEING LITTLE DURING SCARY TIMES

For a Little, the ability to slip into a younger mindset, and bring their inner child out into the world to play can be a gift. It is a way to escape stress, relax, and just have fun. For people who have to be in control too much, it’s a way of forcing themselves to let go.

If you normally struggle to let other people take care of you, being in Little space can suddenly make it easier for you to accept help. Most Littles, by their nature, enjoy being indulged and cared for, at least to a certain extent. That’s really what the Little experience is about. Letting go of control, and allowing someone else to look after you for a while.

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WHAT DOES BEING COLLARED MEAN?

This seems like a pretty basic question on the surface, but when you dive deep, you find it’s a lot more complex. And, as with many things in the Scene, the meaning depends on the people involved.

Simply put, a collar is usually defined as a band that you wear around your throat. It can be made from almost any material: lace, leather, metal, velvet. And by itself it doesn’t need to have any sort of meaning.

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DISABILITY AND KINK

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This is a subject that really doesn’t need a long, complicated article. It’s actually pretty simple, but it is a topic that needs to be talked about more. As we go into this, please realize that people prefer different words to describe these things, and it can be a sensitive subject.

People with disabilities and impairments exist, and many of them are kinky. I don’t know why this comes as a surprise to some people, but it does.

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Just a Quick Catch Up!

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I know things have been quiet on the blog lately. It’s not for lack of things to say!

I have a lot of articles I’m working on, and as always, I welcome suggestions to add to my list. However, I hit a real slump in November, and it got worse in December.

To say December was a bad month… well, that’s probably understating it. Health issues, expensive flooding through the ceiling of the kitchen, combined with hectic holidays, and a spate of people stealing my books… it just really overwhelmed me.

I was struggling under deadlines, and when I had to drop the Krampus book, which I was really enjoying writing, it really sank my mood.

I’m starting to pick things up now, finally. Still swamped with deadlines, unfortunately. But my mood has lifted, and I’m working my way out from under a pile of stress.

So, that’s why things have been quiet here. But I do have news!

Next week there is an article going up called: DISABILITY AND KINK, which is probably long overdue. I plan to have a second one up before the end of February, but I’m not sure what the topic will be yet. I’m working on several, so it will be whichever I finish first.

For those of you who found your way here through my books, there is a new Dirty Daddies anthology coming out next week, with a Sam and Charlie novella in it. I’m very excited to see what people think about that.

It’s currently deeply discounted on pre-order until it releases. So, if you’re interested in hot cowboy Daddies, you might want to grab it here: Giddy Up, Daddy

And I’m currently working on my story for the Dirty Daddies Daddy, Sir military anthology, which is also discounted for pre-order. It introduces a new couple Oliver and Jamie, who are in high school ROTC together, and then later reconnect at a reunion.

That’s all for now, but I’ll see you back here next week!