Dealing With Punishment Issues–Part two of ‘Letting Punishments Go Can Be Unhelpful’

Letting punishments go can be bad for your D/s relationship, but sometimes you might need to work around issues that pop up. You might want to read part one first : Letting Punishments Go Can be Unhelpful 

So what if the Dom is trying to let something slide but the submissive keeps doing it? Or they come right out and say they feel bad about something they’ve done, but the Dom doesn’t want to punish for it? I often hear subs complaining about Doms not being consistent with the punishments. Making threats but not following through.

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Please ignore the accidental post I made earlier. I was setting up a two-part article and pressed the wrong button.  It’s deleted so the link won’t work anyway, but for those of you who caught it you got a surprise preview!

For everyone else this is what you have to look forward to:
Daily Rules and How They Work –Friday January 10th
Daily Rules and How They Work Part 2– Friday January 17th

I will be diving into the next Sadec sequel soon, but I’m trying to get ahead on blog posts while I wait to find out if Taken By The Renegade has been accepted. (Still no news yet!)

How to make a nearly silent kinky toy for a couple bucks! DYI-Kink!

Some of you may know what a Loopy Johnny is because it’s rather famous in the kink community. It’s a brilliant implement, both severe and almost silent which means those of you who have to be wary of making too much noise will love this. It also leaves some really beautiful loop shaped marks. I totally advocate picking up the real thing if you’ve got the bucks. They are beautiful, durable, very easy to stick in your pocket to carry anywhere and I’ve had mine for years without any problems. Continue reading “How to make a nearly silent kinky toy for a couple bucks! DYI-Kink!”

Taken by a Renegade is finished!

I’m so excited to finally have it completed and right on schedule. I still wish I’d started it sooner, but it feels great to be able to type ‘The End.’ on my 8th books. I really think people are going to enjoy it and as far as steam it’s got some scenes that are just smokin’!

Of course now I have to dive back in for edits, tightening, and prepping it to submit but I’m hoping to breeze through that and submit it before the end of the month. Maybe, if we’re lucky, we can look at a February release. Woohoo!