The creations of Kessily Lewel (and Sadie Marks)
Last week we talked about a difficult situation for a submissive. Having a Dom who isn’t around enough because of life events that can’t be controlled. If you haven’t read it yet you might want to check that out first: What Do You Do When Your Dom Isn’t Around Enough–Part 1 Continue reading “What Do You Do When Your Dom Isn’t Around Enough–Part 2 Ideas”
For a submissive, a Dom can be everything. Whether or not you’re also in a romantic relationship is irrelevant, a submissive still loves their Dominant with their whole heart. They take the deepest parts of their soul and give it to them as a gift. It’s a bond that can be as deep as any marriage. It should be that deep.
So…What do you do when your Dom isn’t around enough? Continue reading “What Do You Do When Your Dom Isnt Around Enough? Part 1”
I had an interesting thing happen last week. I was approached by the Survive LDR blog recently because they’d read my Long-Distance D/s series. They have an interesting site with a lot of articles on how to survive a long-distance relationship, so of course my series caught their interest. Continue reading “Long-Distance Relationship Blog and Store”
It’s not all about sex, but I can see why you might not realize that if you watch or read a lot of power-exchange fiction. Continue reading “BDSM–It’s Not All About Sex”
I’ve been writing a lot about rules lately, so this article felt like it was long overdue. What I’d like you to do is read the title and put an emphasis on with. Making rules /with/ your submissive. What I see too often, both in fiction and in real life, is that the Dom simply hands down a list of rules that they think are in the best interests of the submissive, without actually discussing it with them.
Musings of a Chaotic Mind 