Submissive Life – Page 11 – Musings of a Chaotic Mind

October 9, 2020October 3, 2020

BDSM and Self Harm Part One (TW: Self Harm)

This is part one of a pretty heavy topic, but one that I think could be really useful to some people right now. And because of the emotional nature of the theme, breaking it into a lot of sections is difficult so this first piece is very long.

This blog doesn’t usually dive into mental illness, or unhealthy coping mechanisms. That’s not my focus; I’m here about the kinky lifestyle. However, it’s impossible to ignore the cross-over and at times there will be topics that get into that—this is one of them.

October 2, 2020October 2, 2020

Sub Frenzy

Someone recently asked a question in a comment on my Sub Drop post. They wanted to know about sub frenzy and I realized it’s a topic I haven’t covered before. It’s not actually even a phrase I hear mentioned very often. Which is crazy because it accurately describes a situation that every sub goes through at one time or another.

I think it’s not well known yet because the term has only been around for a few years. At least, I never heard the term until a few years ago. Anyway, I gave them a quick answer at the time, but promised to expand later because it really needed a full article. Continue reading “Sub Frenzy”

August 21, 2020July 14, 2020

Don’t Let Your Relationship Get Stuck in a Rut.

Today’s piece is something everyone occasionally needs to be reminded about when it comes to relationships. It’s easy when you’ve been with someone for a while to let things slip into routine and that can cause trouble, particularly for D/s partnerships which tend to require a certain level of excitement to thrive. Continue reading “Don’t Let Your Relationship Get Stuck in a Rut.”

June 15, 2020August 4, 2020

Anniversaries and Reflection

Today is a special day for three reasons. On the professional front… well, three years ago today, June 15th, 2017 to be exact, my first book A Haunting Experience was due to release. It actually didn’t come out until the 16th but today was the scheduled release day. That means I’ve officially been an author for three years now. Prior to that I was just a professional writer with hundreds of published stories to my credit. Continue reading “Anniversaries and Reflection”

May 8, 2020May 8, 2020

What Do You Do When Your Dom Isnt Around Enough? Part 1

For a submissive, a Dom can be everything. Whether or not you’re also in a romantic relationship is irrelevant, a submissive still loves their Dominant with their whole heart. They take the deepest parts of their soul and give it to them as a gift. It’s a bond that can be as deep as any marriage. It should be that deep.

So…What do you do when your Dom isn’t around enough? Continue reading “What Do You Do When Your Dom Isnt Around Enough? Part 1”